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June 02, 2010 at
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Who was the young man who spoke so eloquently at Jesse's funeral yesterday ? We were having trouble understanding as the microphone was not picking up the sound of his voice too well.
If anyone has access to his speech it would be a great favor to those of us who could not hear and also to those who could not attend if it could be made available on Hosehead's Forum as many of us read Hosehead's Forum daily.
He was a retired driver and one of Jesse's heroes (I think).
Thank You. Bud's Bride aka Keet Hunnicutt
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Posted By: Thunderbug on June 02 2010 at 07:39:20 AM
Who was the young man who spoke so eloquently at Jesse's funeral yesterday ? We were having trouble understanding as the microphone was not picking up the sound of his voice too well.
If anyone has access to his speech it would be a great favor to those of us who could not hear and also to those who could not attend if it could be made available on Hosehead's Forum as many of us read Hosehead's Forum daily.
He was a retired driver and one of Jesse's heroes (I think).
Thank You. Bud's Bride aka Keet Hunnicutt
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thunderbug, The speaker's name was Kevin Whitworth. Kevin used to race out of Sedalia, Mo. back in the 80's and 90's. Spent many an hour at Larry McCown's shop in Sedalia working on the yellow number 11. Great guy. I got to spend some time with him yesterday at trhe funeral and he told me the speech was the most difficult thing he had done in his life. RIP "The Rocket" Jesse Hocket. P.S. How cool was it having the number 77 at the funeral?
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Thanks Sedalia 28 for the response.Do you think it would be possible to put his talk on Hoseheads ?
It was clear that the request was made for him to speak because of his great regard for Jesse.That kind of talk always comes from the heart and means more than any of the more polished speakers.
Thanks again.Bud's Bride
P.S. Having been a driver's wife has educated me to understand the feelings a driver has for his "ride".I'm sure Jesse would have been pleased to have everyone see his pride and joy.
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Posted By: Thunderbug on June 02 2010 at 09:16:51 AM
Thanks Sedalia 28 for the response.Do you think it would be possible to put his talk on Hoseheads ?
It was clear that the request was made for him to speak because of his great regard for Jesse.That kind of talk always comes from the heart and means more than any of the more polished speakers.
Thanks again.Bud's Bride
P.S. Having been a driver's wife has educated me to understand the feelings a driver has for his "ride".I'm sure Jesse would have been pleased to have everyone see his pride and joy.
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bud's Bride...I also seen Scotty Cook at the funeral. I think the best way is to email the Racin Boys and see what they can do. If you don't mind, who is your husband and whejn did he race? Thanks Mark Wheeler, Sedalia
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Thunderbugg,
I can work on getting that for you. I wrote part of it, I will get the entire speech in writing and have it posted as soon as I can....
Tbird
"Grip it and Rip it, just don't Flip it!"
R.I.P. Lester
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June 02, 2010 at
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this is the speech given at the begining of the ceremony.
For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Kevin Whitworth. I’m honored that the Hockett family has given me the opportunity to speak to you about Jesse’s life. I’m humbled and amazed as I look out at all of you: family, in-laws, outlaws, and friends and I realize that, while we all knew Jesse in different roles, we were blessed to have known a truly extraordinary young husband, son, brother, cousin, nephew, uncle, friend, football player, and, yes, race car driver.
First, let me set a little background as to why they asked me. As Jack has said many times, the reason Jessie raced was all my fault. I’ve known Jesse since he was just a small boy. I didn’t spend a lot of time every day with him necessarily, like a schoolmate, but I did start working with his dad Jack roughly 27 years ago. At the time, I had just started racing Sprint cars and Jack, Connie, Jessie , Jack’s sister Kathy, “ the Rowden gang,” and Jack’s closest friend Grover Hall all started coming to watch the sprint cars in Sedalia and the other local tracks. For whatever reason, they took a liking to me, which has been a blessing for me ever since. The first benefit of having the Hocketts like you is they were great for t-shirt sales! (Have you looked at the size of this family in victory lane pictures?)
The second benefit for me personally was this family always made me feel like I was one of them. From Jack being like a big brother and Kathy being like a big sister, whom I’m sure would have fought anyone in the stands that was badmouthing me, to Jesse, who was like the little brother who looked up to me and wanted to be like me. For awhile, I didn’t really have a tow vehicle and Jack told Connie he needed a new pickup, but, honestly I think it was for me to use because I sometimes put more miles on it than they did? So when I talk about how Jesse was, I’m really showing you this reflection of all the people that loved him.
As time passed, Jesse’s love for the sport drove Jack and Grover to start building 4 cylinder winged sprint cars to race for themselves. To start out Grover, Jack, Robbie, Jesse, and Tim Rowden (Kathy’s husband) even built a sprint car in there somewhere that they all drove. So now Connie transitioned very quickly from spectator to watching the whole darn family going around in circles. I didn’t get to see them race much because I was always somewhere else racing myself, but I always got the weekly report from Jack on Monday morning at work as to how everyone had done ( Waterloo did pay us for just a little bench racing each week) and every week he would say, “I wish you can see Jesse race; he drives just like you”. I’ll come back to this a little later.
Jesse was proving to everyone around him that he WAS special and one by one the clan parked their cars and the energy started to focus on him. They all still came and watched races as much as they could.
All this “training” we’ll call it that this family put themselves through is why so many of you have come from so far away to honor Jesse. What I want you to know is that without any one member of his family, you may have not been able to enjoy that little boy, ornery grin of his because there was a little bit of all of them in Jesse.
Jesse was also very fortunate to have his cousin Daniel McMillian as his crew chief at the beginning of his career. Those two just knew what each other needed, mostly without words. I think people that didn’t know Jesse well wondered if, after losing Daniel ,he would be able to maintain the success they had achieved together. Don’t let what I’m about to say diminish in any way what Daniel contributed to Jesse, but I’m not sure it didn’t make him better. He could grab anyone, throw them in the truck with him, run of of fuel on the way to the track, leave the wing at home, and still figure out a way by the end of the night to stand in victory lane. After all that, he would take the time to greet every fan like he knew them forever, from a Dick Vermeil to a little boy or girl who just wanted to crawl around on his car, Jesse loved people; you could see it in his eyes.
As everyone knows, it takes a lot of people working together to make anyone successful in the world of Sprint car racing, no matter how much talent a driver has. And before I name a few of those people please forgive me if I forget someone.
First, as I ended my career ,one of my two closest friends in the world and best helpers, Dave Korte, was left with nothing to do on Friday and Saturday nights and Jesse was fortunate to latch on to him. He has been through so much with Jesse and If you would like to hear some of the funniest stories about being on the road with the boys, I recommend you corner Dave sometime when you have an hour or so. You will laugh till you cry.
There are people like Grover Hall ,Bob Douglas, Larry McCown, and Ernie Walker, who, like they did for me, would see a need that was keeping you from doing the important stuff on the racecar and, without saying a word, just show up with materials and devote their time to fix the problem, asking for nothing in return.
And also all the boys that have given up their lives at home to travel with Jesse at different times for little or no money just for the satisfaction of being a part of something special. . And last but not least the folks who Jesse had to meet : Like every other talented driver at every other track, you need someone who has the money and who believes in you enough to spend it. For Jesse, this was lettering on the side of the car: VKCC.
This next portion was written by Tyler Rowden, and I'm glad he did, because I learned somethings myself.
VKCC....who or what is that you ask? That was a common question Jesse would face when being interviewed. Most of us assumed that VKCC was an acronym for something....well, it’s not.
VKCC has multiple meanings. Most importantly, it means FAMILY....always there for you through thick and thin. It also means LOYALTY, TRUST, PASSION and LOVE....it means when you're expected to do something, you go above and beyond those expectations. Think about that....exceeding expectations set upon you. Jesse Hockett couldn't have done that any better, and VKCC certainly did as well. But VKCC does have a literal translation.
Tom and Asta VanKeirsbilck: VanKeirsbilck, there’s the V and your K. They own a Contracting Company, there’s the C and C. Add motorsports and that is VKCC Motorsports. But there wasn’t a VKCC Motorsports prior to "The Rocket.” And Tom and Asta never really had any idea of owning a racing team. Tom, however, did love his racing and being around the tracks with close friends and family.
In the summer of 1998, in Sedalia, MO, there were 2 classes of sprint cars: the fuel-injected 360's and the 2-barrel 360's. The fuel-injected class didn't have enough cars to have a full field so they were asking the 2-barrel guys if they wanted to jump in to fill the field. The driver of the car that Tom was with that night had a few beers and wasn't able to get in the car, so they were looking for a driver. Jack was asked if he would drive the car. Jack told him that they ought to put his son, 15-yrs old at the time, in the car. After Jack convinced them that Jesse could do it, the hunt was on for some gear...Jesse didn't have any of his stuff at the track, as he was a spectator that night. They found some shoes, a little too big but that didn't matter, a suit that was also a little big, a helmet, etc, and strapped him in.
Jesse got out there in hot laps in the 2-barrel car, against the fuel-injected 360's, and was on the gas....going around some of the best 360 fuel-injected racers out there. Come feature time, Jesse was up for the battle, as he would be for any battle before or after that. At one point, Jesse was in the top 5, then slipped back a few positions but maintained a top 10 finish in a 2-barrel car, on a half mile track with the fuel-injected 360's.
After that, Tom said "Damn, that boy's got some talent!". Someone informed him that there were some financial problems with being able to run consistently. The following spring, Jack received a call from Tom asking to have Jesse run a car for him, and from there on it was like a match made in heaven and a dream come true.
Both Jack and Jesse loved sprint car racing and, with the help of VKCC, Jesse's dream became a reality . One thing that Jack heard over and over from fans was, "Man, Jesse sure is one lucky guy!" Jack would always say, and still does...."Luck is when Jesse met Stubb and Asta that summer evening in Sedalia, MO, after that....Jesse EARNED every bit of it."
VKCC Motorsports helped make Jesse Hockett, and Jesse Hockett helped make VKCC Motorsports. We may never see another VKCC Motorsports car on the track again and we will miss that, but we will miss Jesse far more.
(back to Kevin) Every time I would see Jesse, he would still make me feel like I was the greatest sprint car driver ever. Finally, one night at Lucas Oil Speedway, I had to set him straight: he had passed my abilities with his God given talent long ago and the only reason he thought I was so good was because I got out of the sport before he had a chance to whip me like he has done so many other racers. So no, Jack, Jesse didn’t drive just like me, but I’m honored that I might have driven a little bit like him.
There is one more thing I would like to address before closing and because it is last has nothing to do with how important it was to Jesse; quite the opposite is true. Jesse had two women in his life that he loved with all his heart: his mom Connie and his wife Tina. When he was with either, you could see this light in his eyes that could only be compared to when he would climb out of that race car. I ask you to look at the photos and see what I’m talking about. I have had more than one talk with his mom Connie about how I could have lost my life in Sedalia years ago and even though the way we lost Jesse he was doing the thing he loved.
I need to close with this story: just yesterday, Dave Korte and I were sitting in our lawn chairs outside, watching the people file into the funeral home. Dave spotted this little boy, kind of stocky with sunglasses and flipflops on his feet ,scuffing them on the concrete. Dave said standing with his mom., “There is a little Jesse Hockett right there.” Dave said. We laughed for a moment and after five minutes or so, he moved away from his mother’s side and wandered over and positioned himself about 10 feet directly in front of us. He reached up and moved his sunglasses to the top of his head, stared us straight in the eyes, and said in a soft voice as though he wanted us to strain to really listen, “Jesse is in heaven.” Dave thought he knew what he said, but wasn’t sure so he asked the little boy what he had said. And the little boy replied “Jesse is in heaven” and I said “That is right; he is”. And he looked us straight in the eyes once again and said “You’re his teammates” and we said, “Why, yes we are.”
I believe God is a good God, and I believe the day will come when every knee will bow and every tongue will confess Jesus as our savior. This day, standing here before you, it is hard to understand this plan because I don’t have His wisdom and all we can feel at this moment is our loss, but I do believe God loves Jesse Hockett even more than we do and the little boy he sent to deliver the message was right “Jesse is in heaven today.”
Thank you,.
"Grip it and Rip it, just don't Flip it!"
R.I.P. Lester
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Don't know whether this will take or not but I will give it another shot.
Tbird4vkcc-----Thank you for getting that text of the speech at the funeral.
Sedalia 28------My husband is Bud Hunnicutt.He raced from 1956 thru 1964 and quit when his job became more important.During that time he raced against the Welds,Jud Larson,Gordon Wooley,Ray Lee Goodwin and all the others that he included in his recent book,"Up On The Wheel".Now in it's third printing it is available again from Bud and from the National Sprint Car Hall Of Fame.
Thanks to both of you.Bud's Bride.
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Kevin's words made such an impression on us that I just have to thank everyone that was responsible.
Not only those who wrote them but those who lived this story,meaning of course Jesse's family and friends.
Bud's Bride
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Thanks for the posting the speech. I met and spoke to Kevin at a WoO race at Granite City in May of 97. He was parked next to Sammy Swindell and I was looking at Sammy's shocks that were lying on the ground by his car and Kevin walked up and we just started talking. I immediately confused him with Scott Whitworth who was a K'Ville local. He was a good guy to talk to. A how little did I know that a few years later I'd see a young rising star like Jesse and this guy had something to do with getting him started. If your reading this Kevin thank you!
Corey Martin
Dexter, Mo.
RIP Rocket
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Thanks for posting the speech.
They don't even know how to spell sprint car
much less chromoly...http://www.ycmco.com
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I had often wondered what happened to Kevin. Back in 1996 0r 1997, long before we moved to Missouri, we were still living in Tulsa, Keven would drop in from time to time and race at Tulsa Speedway. We were always impressed with his good looking car and his driving style and so my wife and I took a liking to hom. My wife and I stopped by his pit one night after the races and met Kevin, his parents and I believe it was his daughter, they were great people and we would go talk to them from that night on when they would come to town. Not being from Missouri, I never knew there was a connection to the Hockett family. It was a great Eulogy.
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Posted By: Hawker on June 03 2010 at 06:50:26 PM
I had often wondered what happened to Kevin. Back in 1996 0r 1997, long before we moved to Missouri, we were still living in Tulsa, Keven would drop in from time to time and race at Tulsa Speedway. We were always impressed with his good looking car and his driving style and so my wife and I took a liking to hom. My wife and I stopped by his pit one night after the races and met Kevin, his parents and I believe it was his daughter, they were great people and we would go talk to them from that night on when they would come to town. Not being from Missouri, I never knew there was a connection to the Hockett family. It was a great Eulogy.
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yo hawker...Kevin is one of the most low key guys in the world. If you meet him, you would never know he would be a 410 sprint car driver. He is also one of the most humble and nicest guys you will eveer meet. His equipment was always some of the best looking stuff at the track. It was good to see him again at the service. Mark Wheeler, Sedalia mo.
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hopefully people have had a chance to read this....like to keep it available as i know some people come and go on this board, may have been a few days since last logged on....
"Grip it and Rip it, just don't Flip it!"
R.I.P. Lester
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Thanks for letting us folks who are "out of the loop" know a little more about Jesse.
I only got to see him race a few times but whether it was with or without a wing he was showed what a great driver he was.
Thanks for sharing.
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hopefully people have had a chance to read this....like to keep it available as i know some people come and go on this board, may have been a few days since last logged on....
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Tbird4vkcc------Can we make contact via email ? Our son,Dane,has suggested that he would like to meet you and shake your hand.He works the beer stand at Lakeside Speedway in the event that you ever get up this way.
We are : [email protected] and he is : [email protected] (Which is a combination of his wife Jennifer and Our last name Hunnicutt.)
Again, just want to thank you for your help in spreading the funeral speech to a wide audience.Your help in writing part of Kevin's talk was invaluable,I'm sure.
Are you a resident of Warsaw ? Thanks,Bud's Bride
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Posted By: Thunderbug on June 05 2010 at 10:12:43 AM
Tbird4vkcc------Can we make contact via email ? Our son,Dane,has suggested that he would like to meet you and shake your hand.He works the beer stand at Lakeside Speedway in the event that you ever get up this way.
We are : [email protected] and he is : [email protected] (Which is a combination of his wife Jennifer and Our last name Hunnicutt.)
Again, just want to thank you for your help in spreading the funeral speech to a wide audience.Your help in writing part of Kevin's talk was invaluable,I'm sure.
Are you a resident of Warsaw ? Thanks,Bud's Bride
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I will contact you via email tomorrow. I actually live in Charlotte, NC now but originally Kansas city, MO....
"Grip it and Rip it, just don't Flip it!"
R.I.P. Lester
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